The Assumption Iceberg: A Powerful Model to Ease Difficult Conversations | Plus 5 Conflict Tips Reading Time: 4 min 10 sec The Assumption Iceberg Conflict in life is inevitable, whether it's how much we spend on the kids, what solution is chosen at work or returning an appliance to the store. These conflict tips - and the... Read More...
*UPDATED* 7 Fun Coaching Ideas to Push Your Coaching Edge & Get Results! By Emma-Louise Elsey Reading Time: 3 min The best results from coaching come when WE take risks with our clients, when we PUSH the edges of what we might normally ask or say. Of course our clients must do the work and challenge themselves to... Read More...
7 More Career Coaching Tools and Ideas for Clients Who Have Absolutely No Idea What They Want! Reading Time: 4 min This is Part 2 of the article 7 Career Coaching Tools & Ideas for Clients who have absolutely no idea what they want! And here are 7 MORE Career Coaching Tools and Ideas For the client who wants a new... Read More...
A 3 Step Model to Help Your Client Work Through Difficult Feelings and Emotions Reading Time: 4 min How many times have you watched a client, friend or loved one do (or not do) something that's clearly going to cause them difficulty later on? Could this be because we live in a society that believes that... Read More...
7 Step Limiting Beliefs Exercise - Whats in a Label? Reading Time: 2 min 28 sec Looking at our 'labels' is a great way to begin exploring the concept of limiting beliefs with our clients because it's often our labels that get in the way of us making change. This limiting beliefs exercise... Read More...
Beware of Labels - How They Turn into Limiting Beliefs! Reading Time: 3 min 38 sec Often when working with clients we come across limiting beliefs that keep them from moving forwards - and one form these limiting beliefs can take is a label. A label is simply a descriptive term we call... Read More...
Coaching Questions 101: 5 Easy Ways to Identify Your Clients' Limiting Beliefs! Reading Time: 3 min Limiting beliefs are often so much a part of us that we don't realise they're there. In fact, asking a client what their limiting beliefs are could be likened to asking a fish, "What is water?": our beliefs... Read More...
Stop Blaming: Pick up the Mirror, not the Magnifying Glass! Reading Time: 1 min 10 sec Do you have a client who always blames someone else, who seems to create drama wherever they go or who finds it hard to take responsibility for their role in situations? If so, the simple coaching metaphor of... Read More...
Do Your Clients Make this Rejection Mistake? And a Powerful Tip! Reading Time: 1 min 10 sec Rejection is painful for many of us. And it can be even more painful when it's something we worked hard towards or really, really wanted. And that makes it even more important that we learn from our... Read More...
Feeling Brave? 2 Challenging Questions to Help Your Clients Handle Rejection! Reading Time: 1 min 10 sec When a client comes to me feeling bad about themselves because they were rejected I like to startle them with a question, "Well, are you psychic?" Because unless they're psychic they won't know the REAL reason... Read More...